Thursday, April 18, 2013

Here Comes Goodbye


One of the greatest things about Peace Corps is that new groups are always coming to country to dedicate themselves to this 2-year journey.

One of the worst things about Peace Corps is that people are always leaving to embark on new adventures and journeys. 

Since my arrival to country, one group has COS’ed, or Closed (Of) Their Service.  The second group is in the process now. 

The individuals that COS’ed back in September were people that I unfortunately had little time to get to know.  They definitely served as my friends and many conversations were shared with these amazing individuals but I can’t say that I was truly saddened when they left for their next great adventure.

Fast forward to the present and the group that is currently COS’ing.  These Volunteers work in the education sector and have been in country since February 2011.  When I arrived at site these Volunteers were the ones reassuring us of our decisions and welcoming us with open arms.  They prepared us delicious meals.  I worked alongside them at National Camp GLOW.  They spent the holidays with us.  I felt like they served as my Peace Corps parents… Helping to show us the way and introduce us to the true Ugandan lifestyle.

When I got to site I thought to myself, I have nine months with these people…  That’s like forever.  Well who knew that forever could go by so quickly. 

I am now thinking that the group ahead of me will begin to COS in September.  Those goodbyes will be equally as difficult.  Then it is up to the mighty May 2012 group to lead the way.

The friendships made here will continue back home.  I mean who else is going to understand when I speak in local vernacular or when I am craving millet porridge?  

Thursday, April 4, 2013

E.T. Phone Home


I am pretty sure at one point or another in every Volunteer’s service, they think about Early Termination, ET.

No, I am not coming home to America… Yet.  I made a 27-month commitment to Peace Corps, Uganda, my community, and myself.   And quite frankly, I am not ready to come home.  I have National Camp GLOW to direct in August and oodles of projects I want to complete including a world map project and getting tanks to some of the schools that do not have access to water. 

Although this week has tested my limits, as I was ready to toss in that towel and get myself back to my family, friends, and gym.  I have hidden out in my house doing laundry, reading, reflecting, writing, and putting the finishing touches on the GLOW grant.  I have ventured into town for the essentials… Pineapples, mangoes, green peppers, tomatoes, and a small trowel to start my herb garden. 

I needed something to get me out of this funk a show me a way forward.

Then today I had a phone conversation with my supervisor, who happens to be American.  Prior to our conversation, I was unsure about having to work for someone who lives and works in the good ole U.S. of A. and the fear of being micromanaged from another hemisphere 8,000 miles away.  Part of the Peace Corps experience is working with Host Country Nationals and learning from them and I felt like I was missing that piece of the Peace Corps puzzle.  Now I am fortunate enough to work with local community members at the hospital and in the health plan office, so I am getting a very rewarding experience working alongside them.  Anyway, back to that phone call… Christina and I discussed my role in more detail and laid out a plan to accomplish all that I hope to do while here.  She shared some of her expectations and by the end of our discussion, I felt much more at ease and excited for the future.

Often times when I call home or the family business, I get the pleasured surprise in talking to someone I wasn’t expecting.  For example, last week I got to talk with my awesome Aunt Sue.  When I asked her what was new she replied saying, “Honestly, nothing has changed except not having you around.”    

A phone call home always seems to be the perfect remedy.

For those E.T. fanatics, enjoy.


Tuesday, April 2, 2013

An Egg-cellent Easter


The second goal of the Peace Corps states, “To promote a better understanding of the American people on the part of the peoples served.”  Simply put this means to share American culture with those that we live amongst. 

What better way to do this than through a traditional American Easter?!

Easter is quite possibly my favorite holiday.  Waking up to a basket left behind by the Easter Bunny filled with chocolate covered marshmallows and a hard-boiled egg dyed in my favorite color is a simple reminder of family traditions.  This year I didn’t wake up to an Easter Tree tied with gifts or a hunt that included plastic eggs filled with money.  Better yet I decided to share some traditions with the awesome children who stay at House of Love along with Clair and Emily, two other PCV’s who wanted to help out.

House of Love (HOL) is an orphanage located about an hour west of me that a fellow PCV is placed at.  Many of the children at HOL participated in National Camp GLOW and National Camp BUILD, so upon arriving I saw many familiar faces.  Irene, the administrator of HOL, welcomed us with a traditional Ugandan meal but unfortunately we had ate prior to arriving.  She insisted we eat but our stomachs could not take any more.  We decided that taking a glass of soda would suffice.  As we sipped our Fanta out of fancy wine glasses, the children started to enter and greet us with the traditional kneeling.  When I saw my camper from GLOW, Maureen, there was no kneeling… Only opened arms that welcomed a hug.


Maureen and I

Once all the children had arrived, we had them decorate their Easter baskets.  AKA brown paper bags.  While they colored away Clair, Emily and I decided to play the role of the Easter Bunny and hid the eggs over the facility.  Once we finished we returned to the children to find them eagerly waiting.  Emily decided to share the story of the Easter Bunny, which the children found amusing and interesting.  Oh America and your crazy traditions of having a bunny lay eggs.


Ugandan Easter Baskets

We instructed the children that they were allowed to find one egg.  The younger children headed out first with the biggest of smiles and searched high and low for eggs.  After they each had one we allowed the older group of kids to search for the remaining eggs.  I had never seen so many smiles and laughs among a group of children.  Many snaps (pictures) were taken with their treasure.


Fatuma with her egg


Little Faith


Michael with his dyed egg


The younger children after they found their eggs.  Their smiles couldn't get any bigger!




The older kids



A-freakin-dorable

Once everyone had their eggs it was time to dye them.  Now the eggshells here are brown in color so we did not know how they would turn out.  Thanks to Pinterest we found some alternative ways to dye the eggs, including cracking the shell so the whites of the egg get colored.  See picture. 





Thank you Pinterest!


As we began to clean up we heard music.  Music only means one thing… Dance.  Clair, Emily, and I headed out back and the children were anxiously waiting for us to begin the party.  After working up a sweat with some sweet dance moves the children sang for us and did some short dramas (skits).  This is a common way to show thanks for guests then they come and visit.


Dancing the day away


The goodbye song sung to us prior to our departure

Leaving HOL was bittersweet as the children lined the gate, waving their hands goodbye.  I know this will not be the last of my visits to HOL as I have already planned with Irene another visit to do a health and Re-Usable Menstrual Pads (RUMPS) workshop in May.  Whenever I visit HOL I feel rejuvenated and I am reassured that the work I am doing is somehow worthwhile.

After HOL Clair, Emily and I headed to The Cave.  The Cave is a rustic campsite and resort located in the next town.  You can learn more here by liking the Facebook page that we worked on: The Cave.  David, the owner, welcomed us with warm towels to clean ourselves with and glasses of fresh passion fruit/pineapple/orange juice.  He then showed us our room, which he did not make us pay for as we were going to teach them how to make brownies that night.  A very hospitable gesture.


Our banda was the one just beyond the table and umbrella


Just over that hill is another crater lake that makes the two of them twins


We walked around the property, which sits on the edge of a crater lake.  We ventured into the cultural museum, which gives guests an idea of how many Ugandans used to live and how some still do.  We walked down to the cave, for which the property is named.  We sat in the dark and listened to stories the cave’s history, including how it was once used in offering local sacrifices, cleansing ones misfortunes, and used as a hiding space during Idi Amin’s regime.  Water runs through the cave, which is thought to come from the wetlands around the area. 


After the hike, we sat and watched a local dance group perform some traditional dances with some warm gin and tonics.  Jim then showed up and we moved down to the campfire while we waited for dinner.  David came to tell us that dinner was ready, which included fresh vegetables from his garden, parsley potatoes, and a choice of chicken or fish marinated in fresh herbs.  This was quite possibly one of the best meals I have had in Uganda.  Warning though.  The fish comes whole.  No fillets here.

We spent the evening hours playing pool with the locals and teaching the staff how to bake brownies in a dutch oven.  David shared his story about how he came about obtaining the land for The Cave and what his hopes are for the future.  It is an inspiring story and he is definitely in my top five of favorite Ugandans.


David.  Our awesome host, friend, and supplier of fresh, organic greens!

All in all, Easter weekend was a huge success.

P.S.  Mom and Dad, even though I thoroughly enjoyed myself, I still anticipate an Ester egg hunt and Easter tree in 2015.


Until next time...

Tuesday, March 26, 2013

Marathon Meetings


Attend a meeting in Uganda and after its completion you will feel as if you just completed one of your most enduring adventures, such as a marathon.  Unlike America, where meetings tend to get in and get out and have a start and end time, the ones in Uganda are open for anything.

At my previous site I never attended a meeting.  Fellow Volunteers would constantly tell me how lucky I am but I felt like I was missing out on an experience. 

Boy was I right.

Since moving, I have attended four meetings.  Four very long meetings. 

I acknowledge the cultural difference between America and Uganda and those that contribute to the difference in how meetings are ran.  Let me tell ya though, I am fearing that I am not going to make it through the approximately 74 meetings I have left here.

First off, meetings typically start on African time.  In America there is the saying, “Early is on time, on time is late, and late is never acceptable.”  Hence people show up fifteen minutes early to work, meetings, and events.  You wouldn’t want to be the person who strolls into your work meeting late with a coffee in one hand, rummaging through their bag for a pen and paper.

Well here this is a-okay.

For example todays meeting was to start at 2:00p.  I ended my lunch early to return to the office at 1:50p and I should have known better.  The meeting started at 3:30p.  Refer to Time Is (Not) of The Essence for more on that.  The ironic part of the meeting was that the director talked about being prompt.  I will be astounded the day when anything starts on time.

Every meeting has to be accompanied by an agenda, typically with time allotted for each point.  Now as you have come to probably realize, the times are never followed.  An agenda somehow resembles the following:

1.  Prayer
2.  Roll call
3.  Approval of agenda
4.  Reading of previous week’s minutes
5.  Questions or concerns of previous week’s minutes
6.  Communication from director
7.  Communication from accountant
8.  Communication from secretary
9.  Communication from PCV
10.  Reactions and remarks
11.  Closing prayer

No matter the number of people present, agendas like this are the standard. 

Oh and this doesn’t take into account the time breaks you have to take for snacks and tea, short call, and accommodate the needs of the patients.

And always take the snack because you never know when your next meal will be.

In the office the meetings are spoken in English.  Thank the Lord.  For the sensitizations conducted in the villages, of which I have attended many, they are conducted in Runyankore then translated for me in English.  Many of the village people do not understand English well so they want to accommodate everyone in attendance.  I can pick up the local words here and there but not enough to know exactly what is going on.  Despite my best efforts to look attentive, I tend to lose concentration and instead daydream about America and what to cook for dinner.

Moving on to mobile phones.  Remember in 10th grade history class when your cell would accidently ring?  Fellow students would snicker and laugh while Mrs. D would shoot you the most disapproving look.  Well here you can hear the vibrations of people’s mobile while the tune of “I’m A Barbie Girl” plays, indicating an incoming call.  Now you may think that this person would just let the call go but instead they pick it up to have a full-fledged conversation or they pretend no one heard it and quietly answer it.  One of the reasons this is widely accepted in Uganda is that you pay for the airtime it takes to call someone but not to receive a call.

Given these differences, there are plenty of times during the meeting where I just want to shake my head.  Instead I have started to identify ways to maintain my mind. 

Examples include writing to do lists, doodling, playing tic-tac-toe by myself to learn new tricks, and planning my next health education talk or life skills lesson.

Note: I only partake in the above when the topic does not pertain to my position.

I am looking forward to the day where I can attend meetings in America but I’ll confess… I may show up hours late, answer a call, daydream about the good ole days of Uganda, and request tea.