Family Matters

Two years in a developing country brings oodles of emotions and experiences. 

Some would you find in America.

A majority you would not. 

I mean.  This is Africa.

A great way to bridge the gap of Volunteer life to our family and friends in America is to share it directly through an in-country visit.

Another is writing a blog. 

(Wink, wink.)

Sam, a fellow Volunteer and a good friend of mine in country has her parents here for the next two weeks.  They made the journey up North to Gulu and since I was here for a meeting we got to meet up.

In my opinion, family is at the apex of our emotional and mental well-being and Mama and Papa Sgourakes were the perfect pickup.  We met at a very Western friendly restaurant, Sankofa, where we shared drinks, Greek salads, pizza, and cupcakes.

Note: Gulu has a high number of expats, one of whom opened up a bakery that sells cupcakes.  #brightlightsbigcity 

Note: Kitgum does not have this.  #villagelife

We sat under the African sky by candlelight talking about Uganda, projects, what we expect life to be post-PC, the happenings in America, and family.

As the mosquitoes started to make their buzzing music Mrs. Sgourakes made a comment about Volunteers and the life we live.  Often times it is so different than those in America can fathom yet we consider it everyday life.  She said that all the pictures and status updates on Facebook in addition to blogs are what keep things interesting.  Mr. Sgourakes even shares all of Sam’s crazy stories with his family and co-workers.

Obviously my mind immediately went to my Dad and the rest of the Matthews clan.

Sam and her parents are off to a safari today and I am sure they got to witness the beauty that this country holds.

While I will complete my service without my family making it out here I know that we will have so much to share.

Over a night at Finnegan’s.

And maybe someday I will return here with or without them.  All I know is that this will lead to more stories, cultural sharings, and a strengthening bond.