Girls!
As I have written about
previously, gender roles are very defined here in Uganda, with expectations for
men and women being deeply rooted in ones beliefs.
Now women here do a lot,
from digging and operating shops in town to fetching water and cooking meals
but girls, they do it all.
I am talking young girls
in primary school.
In America you might find
these same aged girls participating in various extracurricular activities,
completing homework, or watching their favorite primetime cartoon show. In Uganda these girls are doing all the above
while building a fire to cook dinner, bathing their younger siblings, and
cleaning the house. I honestly feel that
life in Uganda would fail without these girls.
I continue to learn that
some families deny girls of educational opportunities, opting to put their sons
through school, which is why there is a higher rate of illiteracy among
them. Furthermore they lack services to
reproductive health and many find themselves pregnant at a young age. This
breaks my heart, as these young girls are bright, knowledgeable, and I believe
hold a huge part in the advancement of their country.
One thing that happens in
the North that I never saw when I lived in the Southwest is a woman operating a
boda boda. This is a little thing when
you look at the big picture but it is one gender breakthrough that gives me
hope. If men can see that a woman has
the potential, knowledge, and skills to drive a motorcycle, then maybe they
will see the other mounds of potential they have. When I see a woman drive by on her
two-wheeled motorbike, helmet strapped on, and a passenger seated behind I see
a role model for young girls.
I see someone who has
overcome barriers and has paved a way for herself.
I see someone who was once
told her dream was not acceptable or possible and instead looked for a way
forward to show her community that anything is possible.
I am happy to see these
women on their motorcycles, defying what it means to be a woman in Uganda. Essentially they show young girls that your
life doesn’t have to be constrained to what your country believes.
Instead they can ride by
the wheels of a boda, which can take them anywhere.
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